Recently, news about the Tiger Woods thing is pretty hot, a lot of people are talking about it, newspaper and yahoo news have alot of information about this incident. Seriously, I don’t know who he is, and I didn’t bothered to find out who exactly is he either, neither how many women he "hang out" with. To me, he’s just another man with “one eyed snake”. What the real issue that came into my mind was, WHY he did that.
I heard he have a beautiful MODEL wife and a nice family with adorable kids and nice in-laws. So the question is, he already have a pretty wife, why still hang out with other women?
Reasons start coming into my head. So what his wife is beautiful whatsoever. What a man need, in my opinion, is the man’s thing. A warmth family to come home to, with emotional support, after a “hard day work” and stress outside, what he needs at home is comfort. Something like a nice massage, happy chit chatting, laughters, smiles, and most importantly, SEX. He probably did not get satisfied in one or most of the things he needed as a man, so when someone else outside home could easily satisfy him in one of the way, he just accepted it.
I seriously feel that if a man is fully satisfied at home by his wife, regardless its sex or emotionally or whatsoever, he won't turn to other women, no matter how interesting or attractive they might be, because in his heart, his wife provide all the best, plus his wife understands him the most, who will turn outside if he already have the best at home?
So I feel that he is not at fault for hanging out with other women despite being married. Instead, I seriously pity him, for having a wife not able to satisfy him as a man, when he went out to get satisfied, he got blamed instead, the whole world pointing at him in the bad way.
So what do you think?
Attached an interesting commercial by Tiger Woods, enjoy~
i do agree with u but man somehow need their own freedom. although to some people's thinking, what tiger do is very unreasonable action. like betraying his wife trust or being unfaithful to his wife. But can guys really control themselves when it comes to sex? what will they reacts when it comes to sex? But i somehow pity Tiger. As a sports celebrity, peoples are watching his action.No matter wat he do, people will say. all i can say is try to be responsible with wat u do, and dun regret with wat u do.
ReplyDeleteCelebrity also man, nor celebrity also man, what's the big deal? He just made a normal man mistake, no big deal la...
ReplyDeleteNow that you mentioned it, I am surprised to that there's another point of view to look at. I used to feel that it's always the man's fault for doing this kind of thing to his wife. After reading your post, now I feel that the wife should do something about it if she wants something. If she wants her husband to be faithful, then do things to keep him faithful, instead of blaming the man for turning to another woman. Thanks Kitty, for letting me learn to see things in a different way. I can't wait for more new posts. Keep it up!!
ReplyDeleteyes cutie, there are actually many views in the situation. jus dat ppl chose not to listen, and only insist on the view they WANT to believe. thats why we should learn to see things in different views to avoid blaming the wrong people..
ReplyDeletethanks for your support cutie, will keep it up!! ^_^
I seriously don't think what's the big deal about this Mr Tiger. So many men out there fool around, if the news is to follow them, wow, busy sia.....
ReplyDeleteCome to think of it, it sounds pretty logical, that if the woman wants her man to stay faithful, then she should do things to keep her man, not let him have the chance to turn to other woman, and then act pitiful and complain about him....
ReplyDeleteMen are just men and they are pigs. Pigs don't use their brains to think. You have your point there Kitty but no matter what, if the wife can't satisfy him, it all boils down to communication. They could have talk about it peacefully. All these shit will happen when communication stops and Tiger still have his needs as a man. So, it's still best to communicate between Husband and Wife than to have it legally communicated in the court and making the court rich.
ReplyDeleteMy bad, correction on the above statement, "pigs don't even have brains, how to use?"
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