Dec 4, 2009

Guy beat Girl

Recently, through Facebook, I came across a video, where a man beat, slapped and kicked a lady very violently like she’s a lifeless puppet, yet no one walked up to stop, even though it happened right in the middle of the street.

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=103367143013468&ref=share
(I’m not sure if it’s still accessible)

Atif Siddiqui: “bastard...”
Stacey Bok: “stupid guy!! feel like slapping him!!”
Kitty: “this is inhuman!”
Joseph: “make me feel ashamed to be a man……”
Samantha: “actually, there’s a story behind…”

What was the story Samantha was referring to which only a handful of people know about?

It was said that the girl who was beaten up, (lets name her Ashley for the time being), brought the man’s fiancée to a club, in the end was raped by Ashley’s group of friends. The man (let’s name him Raymond) was very upset and so he beat Ashley up.

The first thing that came into my mind was not what Raymond did. Instead, I concentrated on how Raymond was feeling.

Raymond and his fiancée are getting married. Very excited and happy. Worked extra hard to earn more money so that they could have a grand wedding. One random day, Ashley brought Raymond’s fiancée out to club, but Raymond’s fiancée was raped in the end. Raymond must felt depressed, angry, useless for not preventing it, the world crushing down, heartbroken, and not to mention, worrying if his fiancée would get pregnant where the baby’s father would be unknown, or since she was group raped, would she get any viruses or diseases which will endanger her life, and last but not least, loved his fiancée so much yet now feels she’s dirty, imagine all the hell he went through, which led to what he did.

So what wrong did Raymond do for doing something out of frustration and heartbroken to Ashley? How would you feel if your "happily-ever-after" turned out like that? I won't split at him for hitting a girl right in the face. Ashley should be thankful instead, for being still alive. Perhaps she even felt better after being beaten up , instead of being forgiven or brushed off by Raymond, for letting this kind of things to happen, right before their big day somemore.

So what do you think?

A video for you, about men hitting each other's gf as revenge, in a funny way. Enjoy~~

14 comments:

  1. Sometimes things are not as complicated as you think lah..

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  2. but, dun you think the gal itself also got wrong?? if she dun go to pub without her bf, den everything will not happen le.. at least, if anything happen, ur bf is there to help u or protect u...

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  3. I think the lady herself only got herself to blame. If she's getting married, why in the first place go clubbing, exposing herself to risks?

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  4. Nobody wanted this kind of things to happen to them, so pointless to say who's at fault watsoever. If we could predict what would happen, the world will not have natural disasters.

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  5. dear sandy, whether all these were pre-planned, i gues nobody will know except the people who planned it, coz i dont tik anyone would admit to it..

    dear doreen, things are never that simple sometimes, how we wish everythin would be simple, then we wont need to suspect people and can trust everyone on earth..

    dear babytiger, even if the bf/finacee is there, if there's a whole group of men against the 2 of them, he cant protect still..

    dear racy, maybe she's there to celebrate their happy day?

    dear cutie, i agree with you!!

    dear all, thanks for all your comments!! ^_^

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  6. Dear Kitty,

    if her bf/fiance is there, nobody can touch her. if touches her, he can call police for help.. because he is her bf/fiance, he has the right to do that.

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  7. If this was the case, the girl deserved to get beaten up!

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  8. on my view i think if that story is true i would have stnad on the guys side its just too hard to stay clam

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  9. If I am the man, I'd beat the girl up too!

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  10. No human has the right to beat up another person despite any incident. Violence does not resolve anything. Sometimes, things may be more than meets the eye. We cannot see and judge things on the surface, but to be in depth with what happen, only the people involved will know what's happening. We are all just passer-bys. But still, man should never hit woman no matter what the problem is.

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  11. Ya true that the man is very angry. But settle by lawful way better. No point outting yourself at risk of being sued. Sue those idiots instead.

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  12. bottomline no man should be hitting a girl ever.

    Something they don't here in Singapore ?

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  13. maybe the man cant find the culprits, that's why he beat the girl up?

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  14. Because Ashley was the one who was directly involved, "randomly" bringing the girl to the club. Anyhow, anger or loosing self-control is never the excuse to hit a woman. Rape is a serious crime and Raymond should leave it to the law to find the culprits and punish them accordingly. By causing physical harm to others, he's in the wrong too. Fancy risking going to jail for doing something he deemed "right". How stupid.

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