A lady who's in love with a "going to divorce" man, is she a third party?
I came across this topic while chatting with my friends. "A lady hang out with a married man who is getting divorce, is she still considered a third-party"
My opinion is: "NO!"
Provided, when the man got together with the lady, he MUST already decided that his relationship with his wife is already gone case. Already tried his best to salvage the marriage. It must be beyong salvage, then his relationship with another lady is acceptable.
I know alot of people will still label the lady as third-party. But have they really think. If the marriage is already failed, why still waste time on it? Life's already so f***ing SHORT! Why continue spend more years being unhappy, when the man could just let go, learn his lesson, and just give another chance to a new relationship? What is so unforgiving about this? Human on earth should open their heart and mind more. Marriage doesn't mean bonded together forever and ever like a TWIN! Marriage just means security to both parties, and indirectly telling people that the married couple are unavailable, that's all! WHy make it a "dealth sentence"?
I even feel that a new lady's existance is even a very good one for the man. WHY? A "going to divorced" man, how happy can he feel? Everyday, he feel depressed, unhappy, upset, oversensitive, and couldn't think of a reason to live. With a new love appearing in his life, the new lady would be able to "recharge" him. Give him reasons and energy to continue living. Remind him what is love and being happy again. So what is so bad about this "third-party"? I can only come out with good reasons!!
So what do YOU think?
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Normal people will say it's not acceptable. But if you put it this way, perhaps it's acceptable instead. Thanks for teaching me another way of looking at things!!
ReplyDeleteI feel if the man is not totally divorced, he cannot me named "available", because not being really divorced, he might lie to the lady that he have intentions to divorced, but never get to do it, and behind the lady, try ways to get back with his wife. So I feel he can only prove his sincerity in a new relationship with the lady, is to totally divorce with his wife, then he can hang out with the lady.
ReplyDeleteNo divorce no talk. Sweet and simple...
ReplyDeleteHaven't divorce = Not sincere. My bff used to be so deeply in love with a man who claimed he's going to divorce. 6yrs later the marriage is still there and my bff was so heartbroken, only decided to really leave the man upon hearing about his 3rd child's birth.
ReplyDeleteSad.... all the cheating men, don't want to divorce yet don't want to let the girl go. So girls, please wake up your mind if you fall in love with a married man who does NOTHING! Eventually nothing will happen and ownself be labelled as mistress or 3rd party breaking up other people's family.
ReplyDeleteWhen one get tired of relationship and doesn't believe in married. One might turn and believe in companaionship. Where man love women and being together without stress of daily life yet able to provide her with the min. care, love, concern and more.. So the question is why married ? Marriage is only a paper tying 2 party down. Marriage shall only apply to me if we wanna a child. Don't Cha... heee
ReplyDeleteRgds,
Marriage dnt last