Jack Neo's Affair

Hello my dear dear readers!! So sorry to "disappear" for a month, was soooooo busy till I could hardly have a night of proper rest!! And also there wasn't any interesting news to catch my attention, thus so "quiet" lately (or is it I was too busy to notice?) =P

Anyway, I couldn't not notice our dear Singapore movie director "icon", Mr Jack Neo's latest news, and thus decided to "return" to my blog and voice out my thoughts.

Firstly. Recently there are more and more "celebrities" getting exposed on their private life that even their wives are not supposed to know of. Too bad for Jack Neo for being on the list. But does that means that not on the list means the others are "clean"? "Not being caught = No affair?"

Everyone knows the "natural weakness" of men, is women. Slim, boobs, butt, figure, hair, eye lashes, makeup, you get what I mean. A wink, a smile, drop dead. If it works out well, the woman/lady becomes the man's love/wife. If it does not, it becomes mistress/affair/fling/one-night-stand. So is this "weakness" a good thing or a bad thing? Different people will have different views. I can only say, different situation, same view work different ways.

Many people had looked up on him on setting a "good" example. With this issue exposed, I'm very sure tons of people will be shocked and start to doubt themselves if they have been believing the right people in their life, and causing them to start doubting and suspecting their partners, and problems will start to build up out of nothing at all.

Jack Neo said something like this: "honeymoon period is over, passion will also die down". If he have no more passion in his wife, he will feel pointless in his life, and nothing keeps him in up spirit at all, and he would not have much "energy" to do things, how would all those interesting movies be made? So I was thinking, perhaps the "good" thing out of these affairs, is that they had kept him happy in his life, and had "pushed" him forward in working in better spirit rather than a zombie. Being the "head" of the whole thing, and with so many workers and staffs under him, being in good spirit is indeed very very important. I'm sure he also brought home some of the good spirit, and treated his family pretty well in a good spirit mood.

However, also think in another point of view. If a man have the mentality of "it's-ok-not-to-be-responsible", if he applies it on his private life, don't you think that he would apply it on his work too? What make you think that this is not related?

Standing in the young girls' shoes, I think it is extremely selfish of him to hold on to their youth and time when he could not be responsible of their future and private life. However, it takes two hands to clap. If the girls had not enjoyed themselves too, Jack Neo would not have be able to have the chance for all these to happen.

Even though this thing have been exposed, we should not discredit all the great things he have done in the past many years. I'm absolutely sure that he have helped many people in many ways too, which we will never know of. He is as human as you and me. Give him the allowance of being able to make mistakes just like any other humans would do too. He is not god nor any superheroes.

But after saying all these does not means that I agree that what he did is correct. Standing in a lady's point of view, standing in a wife's point of view, I myself feel it is totally not right at all to be treated like this, especially after spending years of unreturnable youth, sacrifies, efforts, time and everything, and get this in return. But of cause, we can't "assume" all these for the madam of Jack Neo. Maybe she is already satisfied with all the love he had showered on her? Maybe she is already over the stage of "her man can only f*** her only"? Maybe she is already happy to receive all that she received, and is willing to give him his freedom? Maybe she love him and their family so much she is able to overlook all these? All these we would never know, because we are not their stomach worm. So we could only sit back, leave them alone, watch how they want the whole thing to be settled, and learn from it.

Below is the video of a press conference on 11 March.




Attached a video from CNN.




A funny version of the CNN clip.




Following is a link to an older blog of the lady who "started" this whole thing, Wendy.

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