Judge Differently

Jack Neo's Affair

2010-03-09T13:28:00.018+08:00

Hello my dear dear readers!! So sorry to "disappear" for a month, was soooooo busy till I could hardly have a night of proper rest!! And also there wasn't any interesting news to catch my attention, thus so "quiet" lately (or is it I was too busy to notice?) =P

Anyway, I couldn't not notice our dear Singapore movie director "icon", Mr Jack Neo's latest news, and thus decided to "return" to my blog and voice out my thoughts.

Firstly. Recently there are more and more "celebrities" getting exposed on their private life that even their wives are not supposed to know of. Too bad for Jack Neo for being on the list. But does that means that not on the list means the others are "clean"? "Not being caught = No affair?"

Everyone knows the "natural weakness" of men, is women. Slim, boobs, butt, figure, hair, eye lashes, makeup, you get what I mean. A wink, a smile, drop dead. If it works out well, the woman/lady becomes the man's love/wife. If it does not, it becomes mistress/affair/fling/one-night-stand. So is this "weakness" a good thing or a bad thing? Different people will have different views. I can only say, different situation, same view work different ways.

Many people had looked up on him on setting a "good" example. With this issue exposed, I'm very sure tons of people will be shocked and start to doubt themselves if they have been believing the right people in their life, and causing them to start doubting and suspecting their partners, and problems will start to build up out of nothing at all.

Jack Neo said something like this: "honeymoon period is over, passion will also die down". If he have no more passion in his wife, he will feel pointless in his life, and nothing keeps him in up spirit at all, and he would not have much "energy" to do things, how would all those interesting movies be made? So I was thinking, perhaps the "good" thing out of these affairs, is that they had kept him happy in his life, and had "pushed" him forward in working in better spirit rather than a zombie. Being the "head" of the whole thing, and with so many workers and staffs under him, being in good spirit is indeed very very important. I'm sure he also brought home some of the good spirit, and treated his family pretty well in a good spirit mood.

However, also think in another point of view. If a man have the mentality of "it's-ok-not-to-be-responsible", if he applies it on his private life, don't you think that he would apply it on his work too? What make you think that this is not related?

Standing in the young girls' shoes, I think it is extremely selfish of him to hold on to their youth and time when he could not be responsible of their future and private life. However, it takes two hands to clap. If the girls had not enjoyed themselves too, Jack Neo would not have be able to have the chance for all these to happen.

Even though this thing have been exposed, we should not discredit all the great things he have done in the past many years. I'm absolutely sure that he have helped many people in many ways too, which we will never know of. He is as human as you and me. Give him the allowance of being able to make mistakes just like any other humans would do too. He is not god nor any superheroes.

But after saying all these does not means that I agree that what he did is correct. Standing in a lady's point of view, standing in a wife's point of view, I myself feel it is totally not right at all to be treated like this, especially after spending years of unreturnable youth, sacrifies, efforts, time and everything, and get this in return. But of cause, we can't "assume" all these for the madam of Jack Neo. Maybe she is already satisfied with all the love he had showered on her? Maybe she is already over the stage of "her man can only f*** her only"? Maybe she is already happy to receive all that she received, and is willing to give him his freedom? Maybe she love him and their family so much she is able to overlook all these? All these we would never know, because we are not their stomach worm. So we could only sit back, leave them alone, watch how they want the whole thing to be settled, and learn from it.

Below is the video of a press conference on 11 March.

Attached a video from CNN.

A funny version of the CNN clip.

Following is a link to an older blog of the lady who "started" this whole thing, Wendy.

My new facebook fan page is set up!! Join as a fan and be involved in the discussion!! ^_^

"Copycat" Found!!

2010-02-02T22:14:00.002+08:00

Wa Say!! Should I take it offensively that someone is trying to "copy" my idea, or take it as a compliment that my idea is so good that's why people out there want to follow? I'd be the positive person and take it as a compliment then =P

Readers, check out my fellow reader's blog:

http://2sidesofcoin.blogspot.com/

Anyway, thanks for all your supports, will try to put aside more time to update as often as possible, sorry to disappoint those who are!! =P

Have a good day ahead ^_^

Guy refuses to give up seat....

2010-02-01T22:24:00.007+08:00

Something "common" you might read about once in a while in STOMP.

"Guy refuses to give up seat even after I yell at him"

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/ugly_commuters/309372/guy_refuses_to_give_up_seat_even_after_i_yell_at_him.html

First thing that came into my mind. Wa. After being "YELL", still refused to give up seat leh. Power. Must have more things behind this incident.

Then I think deeper. I ask myself. If I was the one got yell at, will I still give up my seat? Answer: Yes of course, but not without yelling LOUDLY back at him: "Give up give up la! Need to shout so loud anot. You think I deaf ah? Or is it you deaf you cannot hear yourself talk. Do you need a microphone?"

Haha. Just joking. I'm a soft-spoken girl. I won't have the guts to fight back even though I've been bullied in public. But that idea sounds great though, isn't it? Hehe.

So. I'm not here telling you the guy shouting is wrong, or the guy insisted on sticking his butt on the seat is wrong. Something DIFFERENT came into my mind, as usual:

1) The standing man shouted at the sitting man to give up the seat for the elderly, does the elderly NEED the seat int he first place or not?

2) Lets if we "assume" the elderly need the seat, but won't it be better if you ask the elderly if the seat s needed? Maybe the elderly have been "decaying" at home for quite sometime, and now he/she is out for some "exercise", how do you know? Or maybe the elderly is getting down after a few stops and he/she feels that there is no need for shifting around, and in the meantime do some exercise so that their bones is more used?

3) IF, the elderly really need the seat, can't the elderly open his/her mouth to ask for his/her own? Why do you have to take a look on the white hair on his/her head and decide for him/her that he/she "need" the seat? Do you go around and decide for the public who need the toilet and who don't?

4) We shouldn't "pamper" others too much. If you need something, can't you open your own mouth and ask for it politely, instead of standing there and have that "pathetic" look and hOpE someone will see you and give up their seat, and if they "pretend" not to see, you stand there make "monkey" faces and feel upset about it? Won't opening your mouth to talk much easier and FASTER?? If I am pregnant, I board up the bus or MRT, if I feel I need a seat, I just go to the nearest seat, make sure the person does not have a tummy bigger than mine, and ask nicely: "May I have the seat?" If the seat is given to me, I will smile sweetly and happily and thank the person from deep inside my heart, and most importantly, APPRECIATE it instead of treating it as I own the place, or I by right should have the seat.

5) How do you know the person you are shouting at, need the seat MORE than the elderly? Maybe the person is sick? Fainting soon? Stomach cramp? Vomiting? You want to be responsible to clean the sick person up?

Some monkeys can't see my point of view, will "insist" that I don't know what is going on to write a composition about a topic. THINK. Don't you feel that my blog is on the GENERAL side of the topic? What is the MAIN thing I have been trying to put across on EVERY post on my blog? FIND OUT THE FULL WHOLE STORY BEFORE YOU COME OUT WITH A JUDGEMENT! And that doesn't mean that passing judgements is a right thing in the first place. You shouldn't judge right from the beginning!! If any of the monkeys bother to use the brain more, he/she will be able to see that, what I am trying to bring out in all my posts, is that sometimes things are totally different from what most of the normal people assume. There are things happening "behind" which people chose not to find out, or just chose to believe in "facts" he/she chooses to believe in.

Going back to the "main" topic. Yelling at the guy, hello, is that the ONLY seat on the bus? Only YELLOW seats elderlys can sit, others not seats ah?? Sigh.

Referring back to the comments left at STOMP, some of them I agree, some are just made me roll on the floor and laugh.

steed9210 said: "Why you make your wife pregnant. Next time buy a car first and then only make your wife pregnant"

*Fainted* So only the rich can make love, and the poor cannot? And does that also means that only the rich can fall in love and get married, and the poor cant? So is the cOmMeNtOr from a f***ing rich family? Readers! Attention! Find out who he is and go rob his house!! Hahaha~ *roll on the floor*

Supergrover said something I agree: "Yes, no matter who is right or wrong, Singaporeans have to learn to be firm but not rude. Don't jump to conclusions and no one has a right to order or shout at another. Don't talk about extreme cases lah. Should attempt to inform those seated that there is someone else who needs the seat more than them. If any bugger don't talk to me nicely but screams when wants my attention, I'll be damn TL also loh."

Summary? TALK NICELY LA! WHERE'S YOUR MANNERS?

Sigh..

As usual, a video for you to enjoy. A funny SBS bus advertisement. The unhappy people should do this in bus more often, perhaps Singaporeans will be much happier =P

Can't get enough? Go to http://mrt-videos.blogspot.com/ to watch more of real "lame" videos on our Singapore buses and mrts. Good night!! ^_^

Fierce Restaurant Manager

2010-01-12T14:15:00.014+08:00

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/got_service_or_not/300688/restaurant_manager_from_china_shouts_and_tries_to_hit_customers.html

Seriously I'm not a "china workers" fan. Deep inside, I personally feel that most of them are rude, loud and irritating, even when they are alone at the bus stop, they insisting on shouting into their handphone as if the other party cannot hear them (and they want the whole street to hear their "i love you you love me" conversation). However, I still give credit to them for willing to accept less than half of what our usual salary is, and provide more than what we as a Singaporean can provide. If not, those tiring or dirty jobs like in factories or cleaning industry, you think Singaporeans will do it without barking like a dog? Singaporeans will f*** the manager upside down instead of the other way round!!

Ok, back to the topic. When you walk into a restaurant, expect the service and attention to drop when the restaurant is packed. You have to give allowance of tolerance for the service providers. They are as human as anyone of us here on earth. They also will get upset, tired, impatient and insulted, just like you and me. So why should we expect them not to fight back when customers get too overboard, or were rude to them, or ask them do some "impossible stunts", and expect them to be calm and still provide best service as if you are the Emperor?

You think by challenging her, you are doing it right? If you challenge a dog, you think it does not have the right to bite you? If you want to challenge other people, expect people to bark at you BACK! Don't want to get barked? THEN DON'T CHALLENGE THEM! They are living creatures just like you!

People complain about service provider, but can you do better? If you can do better, then set up a company and provide service, and see what you will get! You think working on the service line is easy? Especially when almost all SINGAPOREAN customers are rude, and expect more than what can be provided? Not to mention to be insulted and challenged and expect them not to fight back?

We shouldn't "attack" people by "deciding" which they come from. Although I don't like china people myself, I do have experienced good services provided by them sometimes. So usually I only judge them individually, instead of "oh they are from china, all china people give bad service". Bad service provider comes from all over the world. So we should not just be biased towards them only. You think we as Singaporeans does not have our "Singapore style"? Try going to Malaysia and ask the people what they think of Singaporeans. They will give you one whole list the way you could give the China people one whole list of "bad".

Yes I agree that service providers "MUST" be patient and provide good service no matter how the customer treat them and etc etc etc blah blah blah. One simple thing. Can you do it when you face this kind of customers like yourself? Turn the table around. Imagine you are the service provider, the customer is someone like you, and react badly like you did. Do you think you can still serve the customer as calmly as you expect people to? Maybe one time two time you can do it. How about facing it often, during your 8hours of work on 6working days every week? They see rude unreasonable customers more than they see polite and reasonable ones! I've been in the service line before, and I know it the best. Out of 30 customers, only 1 or the most 2 of them are polite. Serious. Don't believe? Try doing it on your own. Then you will pity them. Then you will salute to those who can work very happily on the service line.

I do agree that customer can do whatever they want for the things they paid for. They can throw the food away, "da-bao" away, smash it, squash it, whatever and however they like, but do you think this is call respecting? You "demand" for the food, expect good service, when the food arrived, you leave it there, is this right? It's like I walk into a crowded fashion shop, demand for a piece of clothing, complain about the service and their speed, only to walk out when the clothing is found after "insulting" it by saying it looks ugly on me and throw it onto the floor and step on it? So if you don't show respect to other people, don't expect other people to show respect to you back. Respect is not open your mouth and demand for it. Respect is being earned back.

I agree sometimes when you are nice to the service providers, they still don't provide the basic service you as a customer deserved. But just remember. They work 6days a week, 8hours everyday, most of them have to stand on their feet in hard painful shoes, facing countless of unreasonable rude customers all day, can't be give them some allowance and sympathy?

Last but not least, do you think by surrounding her with your group of friends, rude to her, point a camera at her, challenge her, and she have only herself to depend on to fight for herself, you think it's not too much? And still expect her to stay calm and polite? PLEASE~

Watch the video below. Look at how unreasonable some customers are. Still have the cheeks to beat people up.

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=229411162650

Below 2 well-known videos of how the guy "disturb" the service providers, enjoy~!! ^_^

"Girl" being molested.. Part 4

2010-01-10T23:32:00.006+08:00

Latest News~!!!

A reader emailed me and told me that "She Deserve to be Molested at Siloso Beach because she asked for it" Facebook account is MISSING now!!

WTF~!! It's not FAIR!! Is this group shut down because of violating Facebook's terms and conditions? But how could it be? BECAUSE THE OTHER ONE IS STILL UP!! I hope the creator will explain to us soon as to what happened, why the group is now missing, maybe the "victim" went knocking on the creator's door and threatened him/her by pointing "her" unwanted "gun" on his/her head? Ahaha~ Just kidding~

Anyway, thanks to all the supporters of my blog. There's another story that caught my attention lately that I would like to talk about tomorrow. Come back tomorrow for something new!

Good Night~!! ^_^

"Girl" being molested.. Part 3

2010-01-09T21:52:00.005+08:00

FACEBOOK FAN CLUB COMPETITION!!

She Deserve to be Molested at Siloso Beach beacause she asked for it
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?v=info&ref=search&id=1197187533#/group.php?gid=243730183797

VERSES

She Did Not Deserve to be Molested at Siloso Beach
http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?v=info&ref=search&id=1197187533#/group.php?gid=235869124597

"Girl" being molested.. Part 2

2010-01-09T04:05:00.003+08:00

Wow! This topic getting more and more interesting, there was even a facebook account opened on her behalf~

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=235869124597

Check this link out too~!!!

("Disturbing" pictures. Make sure you are over 21, and is prepared to have nightmares, then click this link on your own risk)

http://www.sammyboy.com/showthread.php?t=47901&page=2

(Courtesy of sammyboy.com)

"Girl" being molested.. Part 1

2010-01-07T13:30:00.017+08:00

This news is pretty HOT since yesterday. A "girl" being openly molested but no one helped her.

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/caught_in_the_act/300934/countdown_party_molest_how_can_heartless_sporeans

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/caught_in_the_act/300696/4_men_harass_woman_at_countdown_party_but_no_one_helped

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/caught_in_the_act/301894/Countdown+party+molest%253A+Girl+has+not+contacted+us%252C+says+police.html

Do you know why that "girl" was being touched by so many people? BECAUSE THE PEOPLE WANTED TO FIND OUT HOW A FAKE BREASTS FEEL LIKE!! Sounds weird? Let me tell you what happened.

"Unfortunately", me and my friend were there BEFORE it happened. We were dancing near the stage, when a bastard threw a still lighted cigarette on the sand, and I step on it, burning my feet a patch. Hopping around, my friend accompanied me to the bar and asked for some ice. Leaning on a table near the bar and rubbing ice on my feet, I started looking around. Surprisingly, I prefer to look at pretty girls more than guys (believe it anot is up to you). I saw these two "girls" near the table I was leaning on, looking quite sweet and pretty, and the way they walk and twist their hips and swing their hair, OMG~ They practically look like models. I asked my friend to look too, and just when my friend turn to look at them, I then realised what they were wearing were not bikinis, but BRA SET!! SERIOUS!! Those kinds that almost look like lingerie, sexy and seducing type, weewit~~!! Staring and staring, they start walking towards our table and sat behind us, we swear there was something weird about them (apart form their dressing). We continued to STARE at them because they look very attractive, and attracting tons of stares and men like a magnet, men were walking up asking for their names and where they came from, when they start replying, WE GOT A FUCKING SHOCK!!!!!!! They were MEN'S voice!!!! WE SWEAR!! Our eyes opened so fucking HUGE!! That was the time we realised what was the "weird" thing about them. THEY HAVE APPLES ON THEIR THROAT!!~~~ Alamak *fainted* And we guessed that was why they were attracting even more men than those pretty beautiful decent ladies, BECAUSE THE MEN WERE TRYING TO FIND OUT HOW A FAKE BREASTS FEEL LIKE!! (Tell you a personal secret. At that point of time I asked my friend if I could "accidentally" bump into them and squeeze their breasts for a FULL minute, I was almost strangled). All the men came up, especially "black" men which I thought mostly are not Singaporeans (because Singaporean do not have the GUTS to do these kind of things), not only they asked for their names and where they came from (we heard them, they said they were from Thailand, no wonder), they also surround the 2 "girls" and start touching and hugging them. But they way they react, I'm not surprised nobody came up to "help" them. Smiles, hips swinging, sweet talkings, hands flying, huggings, kissings, who will "help"? Slowly, we realised they prefer ANG MOs because they way they hug and touch ang mos, I swear they wished they were in a hotel room NAKED. Whispering into their ears (do you like my boobs, where are you going later), hugging and kissing on the neck, phew, me and my friend shivered!! Suddenly the "girl" in pink bra set pulled the hand of the ang mo and start walking towards the stage, "her" friend following behind, with one whole BIG group of men following them behind (including me and my friend, because we wanted to watch "show"). They went straight to the platform near the stage and start dancing as if trying to seduce everyone, and a few "black" guys start squeezing up and dance with "her". The rest I no need say already. Watch the video.

I guess nobody went up to help, it's because EVERYONE can see the disgusting smile on "her" face, plus Singaporeans just love to stand on the side, watch, take video, next day post on stomp, and talk SHIT, instead of simply just go up to help (sometimes I wondered, if the person going through this kind of thing is their DAUGHTER, will they continue to video it instead of going up to help). ANYWAY, after the girl jumped down from the platform, me and my friend saw "her" holding the ang mo by his waist, and walked off very quickly. We lost them after that. Then me and my friend joked saying they must be going to look for a hotel. Ahaha. Seriously, me and my friend agreed the "girls" deserved what happened to them. They wore bra set to the beach, have "dirty" behavior, when weird men walk up to them, the way they talk and behave practically like prostitutes, so could we blame the men doing these kind of things to them? If they were proper girls who did not have improper behavior, do you think this will happen in the first place?

Check out these pictures:

(Courtesy of hardwarezone.com)

So what do YOU think?

Check out also a report on the RazerTV:

http://www.razortv.com.sg/site/servlet/segment/main/news/41872.html

As usual, an unrelated-related funny video for you to enjoy~

Thanks for all your support ^_^

2010-01-07T13:08:00.002+08:00

Hello people, sorry for the delay for the next post promised on every Tuesday, but was pretty busy with alot of stuffs thus the delay. Thanks for all your support, and I shall just ignore those funny people complaining about my English. I know my English is not perfect. I'm just a young girl with different views compared to normal people. I just wanted to share my views with other people, so the concentration should not be on my English, but is on my views instead, so what if my English is not good? At least it's understandable. If these funny people prefer perfect English, go and look for writers or bloggers who write perfect English, why waste your "precious" time on my blog? Funny right~!! Kakaka. Thanks though, for still coming to my blog to commend. This prove how "powerful" my English and my blog is. Bad English yet can still attract these kind of "high expectations" people (who they themselves also don't have perfect English). Thanks people!! Shall try my very best to keep to my "new post every Tuesday" promise, Happy New Year ^_^

Mark Chow

2009-12-28T20:10:00.006+08:00

There's this news about this ex-TCS actor everywhere lately.

http://thecourtroom.stomp.com.sg/stomp/courtroom/extcs_actor_molest_case/

Wow. Misunderstanding?

Ok, let's treat it as if it's real. That this really was just a misunderstanding. That this Mark person really was just trying to wake the lady up. Then why? If the man was really trying to be helpful, why the lady wants to make things difficult for this man?

I've read the news. It says that before this "incident" happened, she had asked Mark to help wake her up when he was leaving so that she could take a free ride home from him. This indirectly proved to me that she had "trusted" him enough to let him take her home, knowing that there might be a risk he might bring her to a hotel instead of home when she was drunk. So if she had trusted him in the first place, why suddenly went to the police station and said he "raped" her? I'm sure there must be something else to make her do that.

I have two imaginative scenarios of what happened. Maybe Mark really was trying to wake her up, but in vain. So he tried touching her "somewhere" (but not her BREAST) so that she would wake up, somewhere he thought is not private, but to the lady, THAT place is private enough, thus this "misunderstanding" occurred. Another scenario is that the lady is trying to take revenge or something out of this guy, and was just trying to "sabo" him by making a Mount Everest out of a mole. Hmmm. But doesn't make sense. If she was trying to do something "funny", why ask him to fetch her in the first place? So that he "couldn't" wake her up after that? So that he would "rape" her then she can sue him? Hmmm....

So what do YOU think??

Found one of the video from YouTube from his "Mark Chow" series for you to enjoy (Sorry if the video is abit boring or lame. Can't find a better one) =P

Sunshine Tracy

2009-12-23T15:00:00.067+08:00

My friend told me about an infamous model who turned famous overnight at Singapore Import Nights 2009.

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/this_urban_jungle/260354/mystery_model_strikes_revealing_poses_at_car_show.html

I guess she was made famous for the "forest" accidentally flashed out. So many people had condemned her, saying she must have "purposely" did that to gain publicity. To me, I was thinking... WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL!!

I bet there are countless pictures online with women WITHOUT even a panties. SOme are even NAKED, in the OPEN!!~~ Phew. WTF...

Instead, what draw my interest to this article, was how she posed!! WOW!! She have such beautiful and attractive poses loh!! I was there at the show, ya I saw many beautiful models there.. Hmmmm.. Poses not much lah.. But this "model", really made me WOW!! Let's exclude her "forest" thing, let's concentrate on her poses instead. I really seldom see models with such attractive poses ever before loh!! If one day I become a model, I WILL TAKE HER PHOTOS AS MY REFERENCE AND LEARN FROM HER!! So what she don't have the drop dead looks. She have the poses! You look at American Top Models and shows like that. What attract people is not just the LOOKS. It includes things like poses, attitude, interactions, flexibility, etc, I see that she seems to have most of it! Check out this site that tells you more about what it needs to be a model:

http://www.professionalphotography101.com/Posing_models/index.html

Check out Sunshine Tracy's pictures I have chosen that I feel are pretty attractive ^_^

Pretty right?? I seriously feel that her poses are great and seductive!! Although she have not being in the industry for very long, and am not very professional yet, but not yet professional, she's already doing so great, imagine after gaining tons of experiences! Phew!!~~

Below is a video of her, from the way it taken, I bet it was taken when she just started out in this line.

Check out also a report on the RazerTV:

http://www.razor.tv/site/servlet/segment/main/90/37246.html

http://www.razor.tv/site/servlet/segment/main/currentaffairs/41640.html

And also her blog!
http://sunshinedreams-withinspiration.blogspot.com/

Have a fun and happy X'mas!! ^_^

"Singtel staff screws up wires..."

2009-12-19T12:03:00.015+08:00

"Singtel staff screws up wires, makes my house look like factory"

Came across this topic on STOMP again.

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/stomp/sgseen/got_service_or_not/292854/singtel_staff_screws_up_wires_makes_my_house_look_like_factory

My first thought. Wa Say. Singaporeans really complained alot. Need the "government" to spoon feed you?

I have been to Malaysia and seen their services there. OMG. You go there complain them, you see a group of people suddenly charge towards you with choppers in their hands. Haha. Serious. If you really go to Malaysia, and describe how Singaporeans complain here and the things they complain, I tell you, they'd laugh their head off in your face and say, "bo liao la!"

I noticed that people who complained about service provider staffs, when they themselves are not polite in the first place. If the role is switched, I bet the situation is even more intensed, with the service even "badder". If they expect good services, then they themselves be polite in the first place!

As one STOMPer commented:" Singtel is not a contractor". People might say helping to tidy the wires are part and parcel of the service Singtel should provide. But have the person think. By requesting it to be wired instead of wireless, untidy wires are part and parcel of being wired! Don't like wires? Then go wireless! Sweet and simple. But these people would rather sit there and cry say untidy, rather than get up and do something about it. What a big cry baby. Expect Lee Kuan Yee spoon feed you, pamper you, and rock you to sleep?

Bo liao

Singapore even got a bo liao choir, i listen liao explode into laughters!! "The indoors are cold, the outdoors are hot, and the humid air, it wrecks my hair" OMG. Even weather is being caused by Singapore?! Apply hair conditional la! Complain only. *Fainted*

A lady who's in love with a...

2009-12-14T18:36:00.007+08:00

A lady who's in love with a "going to divorce" man, is she a third party?

I came across this topic while chatting with my friends. "A lady hang out with a married man who is getting divorce, is she still considered a third-party"

My opinion is: "NO!"

Provided, when the man got together with the lady, he MUST already decided that his relationship with his wife is already gone case. Already tried his best to salvage the marriage. It must be beyong salvage, then his relationship with another lady is acceptable.

I know alot of people will still label the lady as third-party. But have they really think. If the marriage is already failed, why still waste time on it? Life's already so f***ing SHORT! Why continue spend more years being unhappy, when the man could just let go, learn his lesson, and just give another chance to a new relationship? What is so unforgiving about this? Human on earth should open their heart and mind more. Marriage doesn't mean bonded together forever and ever like a TWIN! Marriage just means security to both parties, and indirectly telling people that the married couple are unavailable, that's all! WHy make it a "dealth sentence"?

I even feel that a new lady's existance is even a very good one for the man. WHY? A "going to divorced" man, how happy can he feel? Everyday, he feel depressed, unhappy, upset, oversensitive, and couldn't think of a reason to live. With a new love appearing in his life, the new lady would be able to "recharge" him. Give him reasons and energy to continue living. Remind him what is love and being happy again. So what is so bad about this "third-party"? I can only come out with good reasons!!

So what do YOU think?

A "arranged marriage" video for you to enjoy~

More and more S'porean girls...

2009-12-14T17:02:00.010+08:00

Came upon this topic on STOMP website.

"More and more S'porean girls don't have a clue about housework or cooking"

Kao. I bet it was a man who came up with this topic.

http://talkback.stomp.com.sg/forums/showthread.php?t=91954

First thing that came into my mind. The guys have the rights to complain anot. If they themselves are good examples of GENTLEMAN, then perhaps they can CONSIDER to complain if woman are LADY enough.

So far. I have not come across a real gentlemen in my life. The "men" in Singapore, whine like babies. Complain like babies. (Even women don't complain like THAT) Do things like babies (Women just do it, don't talk much) Kao. Now i feel women these days are more "man" than men themselves.

Tell me. Haven't you seen guys cry in cinemas before? Guys who don't know how to change lightbulb? Don't know how to fix a bicycle wheel? Made me laugh on one of my memories. I went to East Coast Park with my ex-bf and his cousin and friends. Halfway cycling, one of the chain on their bicycle got stuck/ came loose, I don't know which. They took 30mins fixing it, 4 heads altogether, finally decided it's beyond hope, and told me we had to walk at least 1km back to the shop to get it fixed, I was thinking "what the f***! Ask me walk so FAR! I'd be rolling my bicycle, paid for it, and have to roll it all around?!" I was so upset, I told the guys to let me take a look at it. Then i asked them hold the bicycle very firmly, i held the chain, pulled, and wala!! FIXED...

So guys, don't go around complaining about girls, even if you have the rights or ability to, you just make sure you can set a good example yourself first! Correct, ladies?? =P

Grand finale. A video of a very "MAN" pretty woman, have fun!! ^_^

Fiona Xie

2009-12-11T13:53:00.010+08:00

Fiona Xie, Singapore mediacorp ex-actress, one of the seven princesses, suddenly quit the frame, to enjoy personally life. To some people, she is very irresponsible because she made the decision “pretty fast”, even in the middle of a certain show, and suddenly disappeared. When she finally came back to explain, she already made the decision to quit the industry. I’m sure a lot of her fans will blame her for being “irresponsible”, but is she really so?

In my opinion, if she did this quite suddenly, she must have her reasons. Things don't happen suddenly overnight one. I heard she was in the industry since 19. She’s 27 now, and that made her around 8yrs in the industry. How would you feel if you go through a life with no privacy, go shopping get swarmed by fans and whatsoever funny people, not being able to shop nor dine in peace, browses things with the shop assistances staring at you, whatever private happenings must report to the world, cannot get drunk, cannot have too much fun clubbing, cannot go out for dinner with guy friends, cannot this cannot that, for 8yrs? I bet she is very sick and tired of her f***ing life with the world breathing down her neck. Somemore she experienced all these since 19yrs old. What a young age. She have not even enjoy enough of her teenage life, haven't even take her "freedom key" (21yrs old) and she became well known with people staring at her and breathing down her neck already.

So, all the while, she is suffering yet still have to put on a mask of smiles, and made the sufferings more unbearable. Somemore some sick people keep attacking her boobs for goodness-know-why. Then 2yrs ago, she found a man she could relay on, relax her life, put down her masks, and enjoy her private life she deserved just like any other ladies, so what made her a bad person wanting to get out of the magnifying glass and live like a normal person? Can't people just understand and wish her all the best and let her go, instead of giving her hell?

So what do you think?

Following is one of her short clip she acted in "The Champion" (任我遨游) in 2004, where she made news with Jeanette Aw, Xiao Qiao and Felicia Chin, running in bikinis along the crowded Orchard Road. Enjoy! ^_^

Tiger Woods

2009-12-09T13:20:00.011+08:00

Recently, news about the Tiger Woods thing is pretty hot, a lot of people are talking about it, newspaper and yahoo news have alot of information about this incident. Seriously, I don’t know who he is, and I didn’t bothered to find out who exactly is he either, neither how many women he "hang out" with. To me, he’s just another man with “one eyed snake”. What the real issue that came into my mind was, WHY he did that.

I heard he have a beautiful MODEL wife and a nice family with adorable kids and nice in-laws. So the question is, he already have a pretty wife, why still hang out with other women?

Reasons start coming into my head. So what his wife is beautiful whatsoever. What a man need, in my opinion, is the man’s thing. A warmth family to come home to, with emotional support, after a “hard day work” and stress outside, what he needs at home is comfort. Something like a nice massage, happy chit chatting, laughters, smiles, and most importantly, SEX. He probably did not get satisfied in one or most of the things he needed as a man, so when someone else outside home could easily satisfy him in one of the way, he just accepted it.

I seriously feel that if a man is fully satisfied at home by his wife, regardless its sex or emotionally or whatsoever, he won't turn to other women, no matter how interesting or attractive they might be, because in his heart, his wife provide all the best, plus his wife understands him the most, who will turn outside if he already have the best at home?

So I feel that he is not at fault for hanging out with other women despite being married. Instead, I seriously pity him, for having a wife not able to satisfy him as a man, when he went out to get satisfied, he got blamed instead, the whole world pointing at him in the bad way.

So what do you think?

Attached an interesting commercial by Tiger Woods, enjoy~

Guy beat Girl

2009-12-04T15:14:00.008+08:00

Recently, through Facebook, I came across a video, where a man beat, slapped and kicked a lady very violently like she’s a lifeless puppet, yet no one walked up to stop, even though it happened right in the middle of the street.

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=103367143013468&ref=share
(I’m not sure if it’s still accessible)

Atif Siddiqui: “bastard...”
Stacey Bok: “stupid guy!! feel like slapping him!!”
Kitty: “this is inhuman!”
Joseph: “make me feel ashamed to be a man……”
Samantha: “actually, there’s a story behind…”

What was the story Samantha was referring to which only a handful of people know about?

It was said that the girl who was beaten up, (lets name her Ashley for the time being), brought the man’s fiancée to a club, in the end was raped by Ashley’s group of friends. The man (let’s name him Raymond) was very upset and so he beat Ashley up.

The first thing that came into my mind was not what Raymond did. Instead, I concentrated on how Raymond was feeling.

Raymond and his fiancée are getting married. Very excited and happy. Worked extra hard to earn more money so that they could have a grand wedding. One random day, Ashley brought Raymond’s fiancée out to club, but Raymond’s fiancée was raped in the end. Raymond must felt depressed, angry, useless for not preventing it, the world crushing down, heartbroken, and not to mention, worrying if his fiancée would get pregnant where the baby’s father would be unknown, or since she was group raped, would she get any viruses or diseases which will endanger her life, and last but not least, loved his fiancée so much yet now feels she’s dirty, imagine all the hell he went through, which led to what he did.

So what wrong did Raymond do for doing something out of frustration and heartbroken to Ashley? How would you feel if your "happily-ever-after" turned out like that? I won't split at him for hitting a girl right in the face. Ashley should be thankful instead, for being still alive. Perhaps she even felt better after being beaten up , instead of being forgiven or brushed off by Raymond, for letting this kind of things to happen, right before their big day somemore.

So what do you think?

A video for you, about men hitting each other's gf as revenge, in a funny way. Enjoy~~

Hello Readers~~

2009-12-04T15:10:00.000+08:00

Hello people~~

I decided to start this blog thing because:

1) Since Secondary, I love literature~ Always get very amazed how a simple sentence or a simple action can mean so much! I could always easily write one whole page of stuffs with just a sentence or an action, so much till my friends are amazed, hehe.

2) I always find quotes amazing too. With just a sentence, they could always be applied on almost everything we do, and in the meantime, encourage us to improve ourselves and the way we do things

3) I'm also amazed how a situation, where anyone will have a same impression just by the first shallow understanding, actually have a different kind of story behind, which if the people cared to find out more, they would have a different judgment.

4) I would like to share my views with everybody, and would like to explore any other views which I might have missed, so guys, hit me with what you think!! ^_^